There are so many challenges when it comes to losing and/or maintaining weight.
For those of us who struggle to the point where we might be considered “eating disordered” – it’s especially challenging. Whether it’s obsessive thinking about food, binge-eating, bulimia, anorexia or even orthorexia, we can all be helped by cultivating a sense of perspective. This doesn’t replace professional methods, of course, and there’s more to eating disorders than pure psychology. There is habit, there is environment, there might even be underlying genetic risk factors.
But no matter how or why you’re struggling, cultivating a sense of perspective won’t hurt you and may even help you.
By a Sense of Perspective, I mean Three Things
- The understanding that you are precious, that every day is precious, and that YOU are more important than your problems.
- The understanding that what you’re facing is VERY common. Probably much more common than you think. The understanding that it’s not your fault and that you’re probably pre-disposed to it in some way.
- The understanding that your time is limited, and that there is so much for you to be doing here on this earth than wasting your time suffering.
Why Cultivate a Sense of Perspective
Because a sense of perspective puts space between you and your problems. And space makes you powerful, because it helps you make logical decisions rather than emotional ones.
How to Cultivate a Sense of Perspective
God, if I only knew!
I’m not an expert on this, just someone who struggles with this and who seems to being doing better lately. But here is what I think.
- A sense of perspective tends to naturally come with age. You can’t rush this, but you can allow it to happen and surrender to it. And if you’re younger, you can understand that what seems important now (to the point of torturing you) might not seem so important later. And have faith in that.
- Spend time stimulating your brain! Filling your brain up with things gives it less time and energy to torture you. This leads you to a sense of perspective. I’d recommend a hobby where you can track your progress. Something that challenges you, but is within your skill set. Even if you don’t like it at first, you might grow to like it.
- Travel (same reason as number two)
- Spend time in nature (same reason as number two).
- Read biographies. Learning about the struggles that many successful people faced gives you a sense of perspective. Everyone struggles. EVERYONE. And sometimes those struggles account for their greatness.
These are just a few thoughts. There are so many others, and I’m always open to more thoughts.
When I feel like I’m going insane about anything (which I often too), I remind myself to have a sense of perspective. These problems, they are not that important – no matter how important they seem.